The relationship with your special guy has come to an end, but still want him back. Here you will learn how to make your ex again be the man in your life. Just follow these simple steps.
Think about why that ended . You want him back because you can not stand the idea that you no longer want? Or maybe you just do not like being without a boyfriend? Or maybe what you really love? Do any of you (or both) was abusive, evil or possessive? Do any of you (or both) cheated on his partner? If any of these things happened, you should calmly think if you really want to return to that kind of relationship with your ex, but if you really want him back, try to follow these steps.
Be the person you fell in love . He was attracted to you because you feel good, and because you were able to fill their emotional needs. Have you changed anything? Correct bad habits, if you have one. Be positive when you're with him. Laughs and smiles. Try to be a positive person, so you feel good about yourself and you will make your friends feel good about.
Do not look like you're stuck in the past. Prove you've overcome separation. Go to your classes, the locker, gym and wherever you can with items you would not normally give, and so will demonstrate that you have definitely exceeded, and that you are progressing in your life.
Prepare your first words . The first thing you say to your ex boyfriend is extremely important. If you choose the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get your ex back.When prompted to end the relationship, not crying or begging reactions back together.That will not work. Instead, you will get angry with you, and do you further away from you.You need to understand that even if it is he who is ending, there is a good chance they still retain good feelings for you.
Use the past to your advantage . If he liked to see in a particular dress, use it again. Or talk about a nice memory with him. If you have the opportunity to meet him, do it in a place known where they used a good time together
Listen carefully to his words . He may use unusual words when speaking. If he uses a rare or uncommon word, use it in your conversations you too. This will give subconsciously understand that they handle a single language.
Find out if your ex still cares about you . Before you do anything to get it back, you need to know if your ex still cares about you. If not and still desperately trying to recover, you need to think about how to make more subtle worry again. The fact that your ex still cares about you is the best sign that things can still be fixed. You should not try anything before to make sure your ex cares about you even a little.
Ask him if he would like to do some non-compromising activity, like going out with friends, play miniature golf, tennis, etc. . Something to get used to friends or people who are just starting out. And whatever it is, make it fun. Leave the serious talks for later, can be intimidating for him. However, if he decides to start a conversation like that, play along, but do not get heavy.
Let him know you've been thinking about him . Remind her of that time they left to eat at this new restaurant and how well they went together. Send a short email telling him you ate there recently, and you remembered it. Oh and by the way, ask how things are going.This is a good way to have a light conversation with him, something that for sure will not uncomfortable
Invite him to talk to you . Tell her you're sorry that things did not work out between you two. Ask him if he would like to discuss the relationship now that you have clarity on the matter.
Pay attention to your appearance if you've been neglecting this aspect . Fix your nails and your hair. Take a nice warm bubble bath, and put on a pretty dress.
Stop worrying about what other people think . The fact is, they do not really care what others think. It is impossible to be yourself if you keep asking: "Will they think I'm funny?" "They'll think I'm fat?" "Do you think I'm stupid?". For you to be yourself, you must be free of such concerns and let your personality flow. The only thing that should stop your personality is your consideration for others (not considering that others have towards you).
If you have recently completed (within two weeks) completely ignore . He will call you if you still feel something for you. If you already do not like you, nothing you say or do will change his mind. This step works perfect, unless you have a guy who thinks that if you do not care to save the relationship, just not worth it. Sometimes, ignore your ex can make you think you've just passed and you're moving in your life, which is just the opposite of what you want when you try to recover. Make sure you know what kind of man is your ex when you're trying to recover.
Remember, no situation is impossible . Every day, many separated couples are reunited despite the circumstances.
Search distract in other activities . If you concentrate your attention on a new activity, you have less time to miss your ex. You will feel stronger and more control over your life. If you still keep in contact with your ex, he will notice that you have exceeded the break and probably start reconsiderarte.